CONSIDERING ADOPTION
This page is for those expecting a baby and considering making an Adoption Plan.
If you're looking for information about Adopting or Fostering a child, please click this link below.
ADOPTION
Dear Mama,
We see you. You have a lot on your mind and a lot to consider.
You're wondering if this is the best decision for you and your baby...
Adoption isn't always an easy decision, and it's not for everyone, but Adoption can also be a beautiful act of love.
Adoption can show the Selfless Love you have for your baby, while knowing that your baby will be safe and grow up in a good home.
Adoption can be both beautiful and hard at the same time.
You don't have to make this decision alone we are here to walk you through your options, the different types of adoptions,
and help you make an informed decision.
You don't have to have it all figured out.
Whether you're just thinking about it, or you know Adoption is what you're choosing, we just want you to know
that you don't have to walk this alone.
We are here for you.
Below you will find more information about Adoption, how we support you, and a way to contact us.
Types of Adoption
Bio Mom: A mom who chooses Adoption for her child: Adoptive Parents/Family: Adopts a child needing a home
Open Adoption
In open Adoptions there's open contact and communication between the Birth Mom and the Adoptive Family.
This enables you to watch your child grow up and be more involved in their lives.
[the degree of openness will vary depending on the mutual agreement both Birth Mom & Adoptive Family decide on]
Closed Adoption
In closed Adoptions there are no contact or communication between the Birth Mom & the Adoptive Family.
This type of Adoption is very private and confidential.
You will only be able to try to make contact with your bio child after they turn 18 years old.
More Options
1. Semi-open Adoption
there's typically a liaison from the Agency that helps facilitate communications & openness agreements
[liaison definition as used above: communication or cooperation which facilitates a close working relationship between people]
2. Temporary Placement
At Cities of Refuge, we offer temporary placement plans, meaning that you can have us take care of your baby until you are ready to take your baby home.
How we Support Birth Moms and Families
Connect with us
When you contact us, we will walk with you every step of the way. Providing encouragement, support, to make sure you feel empowered to make the best decision for you & your child.
Whether you are Pregnant or have already had your child, you will be supported. You will be provided with the information you need about your options + the different types of Adoption so that you can make an informed decision.
The Process
We will walk you through making an Adoption plan and help you find an Adoptive Family.
[If you are Pregnant you will qualify for the Services, we offer for Pregnancy, Labor/Delivery, & Postpartum Support]
After Adoption Support
We provide post-adoption support and resources, including gifts of Hope to remind you that you are loved and supported.
Frequently asked questions about adoption
Is Adoption Selfish?
Typically, when someone chooses adoption it's not an easy decision. It's usually done with great love for their child, to hopefully have the best life possible, when they don't feel like they can give that to them.
We offer many services and resources to help those who feel like they need help to have their baby & parent them, but ultimately if you choose adoption, we want to honor your strength, bravery, and love that you have to give life to your child and give them the best life possible!
How can I know that my baby or child will be taken care of?
You will have the opportunity to choose the couple that will adopt your child [this is optional].
You will find a list of qualified couples who have been through extensive background screening and training on adoption & parenting, and more!
Can I choose who adopts my baby?
Yes! This is optional when making an adoption plan, but you will have the opportunity to choose the couple that will adopt your child.
Who can place a child for Adoption?
Anyone who has legal guardianship can choose to make an adoption plan.
Does my child have to be a newborn?
No. Our children's home can care for children\teens of any age and give them a safe place to call home.
Click on our "Place a child" page to learn more
Is making an Adoption Plan hard?
Adoption in itself is a decision that isn't always easy, but we strive to make the adoption process as easy as possible for both you, the birth mom, and the adoptive family
Will this cost me anything?
As a birth mom, you will NOT be charged for making an adoption plan.
Can I still be a part of my baby's life?
If you choose to have an open adoption, yes!
As mentioned above, in an open adoption there's open contact & communication between you and the adoptive family.